One Sided Love

"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, goes out of your life without saying anything"



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I was just thinking of what my next post should, when my friend preethi gave an excellent idea.

What better topic could i have chosen rather than this.



Everyday for the past 1 year I have told myself what an idiot I am. The reason why I'm an idiot is because of myself. I have made myself the idiot I am today.


2 years ago l met a man who would change my life forever. I was much too young to understand that one day that one look would be all I thought about. Consumed by him we stumbled upon more than just an average first love, it was something amazing something l wanted to keep forever. However, like life, everything that is good has a bad to it. I could never say this before, but I think one word to describe love is powerful. Internet love is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s just something you have to let your self dream about and dreaming well we did a lot of that. He was the missing piece of my life something that l had always dreamt about and didn’t have.
I dated this guy for almost a year. He was my first love. While we were dating I let others influence me into thinking that he wasn't a good boyfriend which was indeed true. I didn't know what I was getting into but i guess one person surely did. She kept telling me don't trust him but I didn't even bother to hear and that was the biggest mistake of my life. I truly loved him but he didn't love me back. He had other ideas with me and that really shattered me. I was devastated. Had I listened to her, I wouldn't had to go through this horrendous pain. But they say "Time heals all your pains" and its very much true.


One-sided love is the greatest sin one can ever commit in this earth. One-sided love generates lots and lots of negative energy, which not only harms the lovelorn lover physically and mentally, it can really harm anyone who comes close to him/her. This negative energy makes the bereft lover very much upset, who in turn shows agitated behavior to anyone who comes to his/her contact. Never get indulged in one-sided love. If someone rejects your proposal of love, then immediately get him/her out of your heart. Never keep a minute fraction of his/her remembrance in your mind and heart.

Does one sided love ever work?

Not all the time, since you cannot make someone love you. If they cannot love you then they can't. Sometimes it does work, but you have to be very very patient and only if that person is WORTH it and if they are not you should move on.

• One-sided love is not fair to either person. Also, relationships are hard enough to keep even when both people are actively in love with one another. You cannot make it happen on your own. Best to throw this fish back into the sea and look for love elsewhere.
  

• No one can have a happy existence and grow from happiness if they are in love with someone, but are not loved back. It causes arguments, suspicion, generally cheating on the partner and a great deal of stress.

• The pain of this horrendous situation "One sided Love" unless you are a victim of it. I know it is very difficult situation to be in and I wish no one falls in this kind of situation because the result is surely going to be very, very painful and one might end up running his/her life, but still I think if in any case you have been in this kind of situation what you need to do is to try to find happiness in the happiness of your mate......and please don't wait for him/her to come back into your life because it's true that you can't make anybody love you forcefully; just believe in your destiny and maybe something very sweet is waiting for you in your life.

• Here's what you can try to make "One sided Love". Have you ever been told "I don't love you the way you love me." That is just an easy out. You need to remember there had to be love to keep a relationship going. 99 precent of the time just taking a break from each other for a while. Will rekindle the feelings each of you have had for each other. Not to mention it will make the relationship stronger in the end. This method will reduce stress, and anxiety in each of you. You may also try to go to couple counseling to resolve these issue's A third party that doesn't know each of you will not take side's. There is always hope in these kind of relationships.